I have been stuck at 165 on my bench press now for a good 2 months. I have tried deloading, carbing up on chest day, tried using 170 on the first set then down to 155 for the last 2. Sometimes i bench and get 12, 12, 8. Sometimes 13, 12, 9. Sometimes 12, 10, 7 on my 3 sets. Its all over the map. When I was doing stronglifts I was able to bust plateaus by eating like a hog, but a big gut was the consequence. I have cut back, cleaned up my diet, switched to a higher rep workout, and lost my gut, but my lifts seem to be suffering. I am doing a slightly modified tspa now by the way. My overhead press is stuck too.
How the hell do you progress, and keep progressing without over-eating, and gaining a gut. Or is it perfectly normal to be stuck at a certain weight like this for a while.

